We all have neighbors that can make our lives less than pleasant. They may forget to take out their trash, have a clunker or a rusty playground in their backyard, or play their music above a respectable level.
Whatever the situation may be, a poor neighbor can be one of the most frustrating experiences an individual has to encounter. As a homeowner, you want to have a good experience in your neighborhood; but if you are living next to someone who is causing stress, you probably have nothing to lose by kindly inquiring about their lives and stating how they are affecting yours—gently and firmly.
Following are a couple of steps you can follow in order to handle any given situation in the best way possible. Below are a few helpful tips when confronting your neighbor about his or her poor behavior.
1) Before Moving In Find Out What The Neighborhood Is Like.
Although it may seem obvious, one of the best ways to handle a poor neighbor is to not move into a place where the problem already exists. Before you purchase a home, it may be worth your time to ask some of the neighbors whether any problems have existed within the neighborhood. Some of the items that may be worth asking include:
- Does anyone in the neighborhood play their music louder than a respectable volume?
- Do people take out their trash on the assigned day, or does anyone ignore this courtesy?
- Do people respect each other’s privacy, or are there nosy neighbors?
- Do the neighbors look out for one another regarding crime?
- Is the positive energy between neighbors, or is there a neighbor that constantly complains?
By asking the right questions, you are reducing your chances of living with a bad neighbor. Purchasing your home is a big deal, so taking the time to ask around is worth it–especially if it means avoiding a situation with a negative neighbor for years to come.
2) Is There a Problem?
If a problem does seem to arise after you have moved in, it is important to ask others around you to determine whether you are being realistic about the problem. Sometimes we become oversensitive in particular situations and thus it is important to get a second opinion from your neighbors. After getting a second opinion, and if that opinion is consistent with your own, it may be necessary for you to consider what you should do next.
3) Keep a List
If the issue is a reoccurring problem it may be worth your time to create of a list of what the problem is, how often it occurs, and at what time of day it happens. Keeping a list is important in case the issues gets out of hand and you need to report it to a higher authority.
4) Report the Problem
If the problem becomes an issue that you cannot handle, then the next step is to report it to others. Who you report it to depends on how big the issue appears to be. For example, if it is a problem that can be resolved by you and your surrounding neighbors, then telling those around you or the neighbor you are having an issue with may be all that is required. However, if the problem is a legal matter or one that cannot be resolved outside of the courtroom, you may have to file a complaint and let the legal system handle the issue.
Patience and Respect Are Key
Although your neighbor may not be giving you the respect or courtesy you expect, it is important for you to stay levelheaded and patient when confronting the issue. By remaining calm and collected, you are reducing the chance of unnecessary drama arising. Keep a list, confront the individual about your issue, or take it to a higher authority if necessary. Bad neighbors are not fun to handle, but there are ways to reduce your anxiety and resolve the problem.
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